Comments for The Story of Ju.

Comment on Forgetting to breathe by ju

ju — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 13:50:10 +0000

Comment on Forgetting to breathe by Laurie

Laurie — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 09:45:11 +0000

/me faints
(in a good way!)

Comment on Hypnotized. by ju

ju — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 01:21:42 +0000

Thank you very much Bella.

Comment on Hypnotized. by Bella Sloane

Bella Sloane — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 00:42:29 +0000

I sincerely empathize with your plight. I have often also suffered from people’s assumptions about indirect messages “between the lines” or presumed sarcasms that just are not there. The way I deal with it is to remember that usually the people that see those sorts of things are projecting because that is the sort of thing they are either used to do themselves all the time, or they have experienced from others in their own scarred pasts. For those that I suspect the later, I will make the effort to restate more clearly and point out that I never said what they claim I implied in whatever fashion they imagined. But for the prior, their ways are, and will always be dishonest, and there is no point in wasting the effort in repeating yourself, because no matter how many times you state things clearly and directly and with total honesty, THEY will always be swerving on and off the straight path and will only ever catch what they want to hear as they jump over the line.

All our paths will intertwine. The trick is discovering who wants to walk in the same direction as us and whether or not they want to keep us company, lead us or follow us, while avoiding those that wish only to knock you off or drag you onto their own paths.

That may sound like wishy-washy psuedo-psychology, but that is just how I visualize it.

In other words, the right Master for you is not one that leads you down his own path, but that you meet up with on YOUR own path and is able and willing to help KEEP you on the right track. That is a very hard thing to discover when you cannot see very far down your road yourself, so that is when we take the chances to put faith in His guidance. However, you will know you can trust the Master that is strong enough to NOT keep you weak through blindness and is wise enough to SHOW you the way and challenge you to keep up.

I think you are in scary point right now… you have every reason to be excited and nervous and cautious and optimistic. You would be insane NOT to feel so unsettled.

I loved the recent stories too, by the way. Very hot.
I hope you keep up ALL your writing.

I wish you well,
Bella

Comment on scratched by pinkshoegirl

pinkshoegirl — Wed, 06 May 2009 11:32:47 +0000

You have exactly the right attitude Juelle! Don’t let them get you down, their lies and drama will be the undoing of them. Keep being you, the Juelle you where before it all. x

Comment on Wet…very wet. by ju

ju — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 22:02:22 +0000

*smiles*
thank you.

chin is up.

Comment on Vulnerability pokes? by ju

ju — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 22:01:10 +0000

grins
i like that.
‘get stuffed’

Thank you

Comment on Wet…very wet. by blueknight26

blueknight26 — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 08:00:27 +0000

Spend time with friends.

Hell randomly pick a subject your interested in and play wiki webs, you start at the main subject find a wiki article and then click links that interest you on each page (maybe wiki tree is better name?)

or go in search and search it out.

that fails pick someone randomly you want to meet / talk to in sl and never had the chance and randomly message them.

Sometimes life is about throwing caution to the wind and rolling the dice, othertimes its about consolidating yourself your world understanding it.

sometimes its just about having a bit of fun for you.

keep your chin up.

Comment on Vulnerability pokes? by blueknight26

blueknight26 — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 07:47:47 +0000

Men are attracted to what they can’t have in alot of cases. Also you have the added thing of “getting one over” on your owner.

Even then, there are men that will like you desire you etc, then starting with sexual stuff, slowly try andpush and push, trying to in effect steal you slowly, insideously with various ims / actions.

Maybe that isnt what this guy was doing. But one good thing about sl, no matter what you are within rp. you decide what you do with who ooc. So yes you can be a slave to some men that you feel you wish to, but you don’t have to be with every man.

So really you could have told him to get stuffed

Good Luck Kajira!

Comment on Night terrors. by Laurie

Laurie — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 18:04:39 +0000

/me wraps her arms around you and hugs you tightly, whispering “shhhhhh” at your ear. You are not ugly or disgusting or bad or worthless or any of the other invectives you are throwing at yourself. I know, I really and truly know, what you are feeling. Fight with all that you have to get those words out of your head. Focus on your strengths. Your intelligence, your creativity, your passion, your love, you service, so much more. The pain is too big; don’t add fuel to the fire. I cannot make it go away, but I can help you survive it.

I lend you my strength and my will to survive, until you are able to feel these things in yourself again. The pain is like fire in a forest. It decimates the undergrowth and strikes terror into the hearts of all who live there. But when the spring comes again there are new trees, the forest floor is covered with new wildflowers, the creatures grow and thrive. You too will survive the fire and thrive.

I pray for your munchkin. You time with her was not wasted, but I suspect that neither of you will be able to see that until she is grown. Maybe you will be the first adult in her life to teach her that a mother’s love goes on, that no matter what she does, you will always love her. And maybe someday she’ll be able to love her own children that way.

If you ever need an ear or just a friend who knows what you are going through, I’m here.